Teenage Challenges
Lesson 3: The Choice of Godly Character
Lesson Focus
Understanding the blessings, cost, and eternal value of choosing to build godly character.
The Choice of Godly Character
God assures us that we are blessed when we choose to say “no” to sin and “yes” to His will:
“Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly… but his delight is in the law of the LORD” (Psalm 1:1–2).
Building Bible character is not easy—it is demanding. It requires choosing eternal values over temporary pleasure or worldly gain (Matthew 6:19–21). By choosing godly character, you are laying up treasures in heaven rather than focusing only on what is temporary.
Wisdom in Obedience
Building Bible character shows the wisdom of obeying Jesus Christ. He is the source of eternal salvation to those who obey Him (Hebrews 5:9). Jesus taught that the one who hears and obeys His words is wise, while the one who hears but does not obey is foolish (Matthew 7:24–27).
True character is shown when a person chooses to say “yes” to Christ and “no” to the pressures of others. This kind of commitment is essential in living a faithful Christian life.
Living with Eternal Values
Building Bible character means focusing on eternal rewards. Like an athlete striving to win a race, Christians must stay disciplined and committed. However, the Christian’s goal is far greater—an imperishable crown of eternal life (1 Corinthians 9:24–27; 2 Timothy 4:7–8).
Young people are fully capable of living godly lives and developing strong character. God’s Word provides guidance that leads to both present joy and eternal life.
The Cost of Discipleship
Following Jesus requires sacrifice (Matthew 10:34–39). The cost of building godly character may include losing friendships, facing opposition, giving up personal desires, or making difficult life choices (Luke 14:25–33).
True disciples are those who are willing to give up anything necessary to follow Christ. Paying this cost is what shapes and strengthens godly character.
Treasures in Heaven
Building Bible character focuses on what truly lasts. Life is uncertain and brief (James 4:13–14), and we should always live with the mindset, “If the Lord wills…” (James 4:15).
Laying up treasures in heaven is far more important than pursuing earthly wealth or temporary success (Matthew 6:19–21). A life centered on God leads to lasting reward and purpose.
Key Scriptures
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Psalm 1:1–2
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Matthew 6:19–21
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Hebrews 5:9
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Matthew 7:24–27
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1 Corinthians 9:24–27
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2 Timothy 4:7–8
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Matthew 10:34–39
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Luke 14:25–33
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James 4:13–15
Think About It
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What does it mean to choose godly character?
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Why is obedience to Christ considered wise?
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What sacrifices might be required to follow Jesus?
Reflection
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Are you choosing temporary pleasures or eternal values?
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What changes can you make to better follow Christ?
Takeaway
Choosing godly character requires sacrifice and commitment, but it leads to true blessings now and eternal rewards in the life to come.